Counseling for Trauma, Anxiety, and Emotional Healing 

Your mental and emotional well-being are our priority.

ABOUT
At Polaris Counseling & Consulting Services, we provide trauma-informed counseling, coaching, EMDR therapy, biofeedback, and wellness services designed to support mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical healing. Our mission is to help individuals, couples, families, and professionals achieve meaningful transformation through compassionate, evidence-based care tailored to their unique needs.We believe healing and personal growth are possible for everyone. Whether you are navigating anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, grief, stress, life transitions, or emotional burnout, our team is committed to walking alongside you with empathy, clinical expertise, and individualized support.Our counselors and coaches integrate traditional psychotherapy approaches with innovative wellness and nervous-system-based interventions, including EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), heart rate variability (HRV) biofeedback, trauma-informed therapy, somatic strategies, and performance-focused coaching. By addressing the connection between the mind, body, relationships, and nervous system, we help clients build resilience, improve emotional regulation, strengthen relationships, and create lasting change.At Polaris Counseling & Consulting Services, our goal is not only symptom relief, but helping you become more grounded, empowered, connected, and aligned with the life you want to live.

  • 181 Wind Chime Court ste 201, Raleigh, NC, USA

Counseling Services

Individual Counseling Life can feel overwhelming at times. The demands of relationships, parenting, work, school, caregiving, and personal responsibilities can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted, disconnected, anxious, or stuck. Whether you are facing anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, stress, relationship difficulties, or major life transitions, you do not have to navigate it alone. At Polaris Counseling & Consulting Services, we provide compassionate, trauma-informed individual counseling designed to help you heal, grow, and reconnect with yourself. Therapy offers a safe and supportive space where you can feel heard, understood, and empowered while developing healthier patterns, stronger coping skills, and greater emotional resilience. Our therapists work collaboratively with clients across various age groups using evidence-based approaches tailored to each individual’s unique needs and goals. Services may include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), trauma-informed care, EMDR, somatic and nervous-system-based interventions, attachment-focused therapy, mindfulness strategies, and strengths-based support. We help clients address concerns including: Anxiety and chronic stress Depression and emotional overwhelm Trauma and PTSD Grief and loss Anger management Relationship and communication challenges Self-esteem and identity concerns Life transitions and burnout Coping skills and emotional regulation Social and interpersonal difficulties Our goal is not simply symptom management, but helping you build a more grounded, meaningful, and fulfilling life with greater clarity, confidence, and emotional well-being. COUPLES COUNSELING Relationships can become painful when couples feel stuck in cycles of conflict, emotional distance, defensiveness, mistrust, or repeated misunderstandings. Many couples come to therapy feeling exhausted from having the same arguments, struggling to communicate effectively, or wondering how they became so disconnected from the person they once felt closest to. At Polaris Counseling & Consulting Services PLLC, we provide compassionate, evidence-based couples counseling for dating, engaged, married, and long-term couples who want to rebuild connection, improve communication, strengthen trust, and create healthier relationship patterns. Our therapists help couples move beyond blame and reactivity to better understand the deeper emotions, attachment needs, and patterns driving conflict within the relationship. We specialize in helping couples navigate: communication breakdowns recurring conflict and emotional escalation betrayal trauma and infidelity recovery emotional disconnection intimacy and closeness concerns parenting and family stress trust issues attachment wounds anxiety and stress affecting relationships premarital counseling separation and reconciliation concerns life transitions impacting the relationship Our approach is warm, structured, and trauma-informed while integrating evidence-based couples therapy models including: Gottman Method Couples Therapy Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Prepare/Enrich SYMBIS Attachment-Based Therapy Trauma-Informed Couples Counseling Couples therapy is not simply about “learning communication skills.” It is about helping partners feel emotionally safe enough to reconnect, understand one another more deeply, and create new patterns of responsiveness, trust, and repair. For engaged and premarital couples, we offer structured premarital counseling designed to strengthen communication, identify relationship strengths, address potential growth areas, and build a strong foundation before marriage. Healing a relationship requires vulnerability, consistency, and intentional effort, but meaningful change is possible. With the right support, couples can learn to move from conflict and disconnection toward greater emotional intimacy, healthier communication, and a stronger, more secure relationship. FAMILY THERAPY Family relationships can become overwhelmed by stress, conflict, trauma, parenting struggles, behavioral concerns, divorce, grief, blended family dynamics, and major life transitions. When communication breaks down or emotional tension becomes constant, families often begin feeling disconnected, frustrated, exhausted, or unsure how to move forward together. At Polaris Counseling & Consulting Services PLLC, we provide compassionate, trauma-informed family therapy designed to help families improve communication, strengthen relationships, rebuild trust, and create healthier patterns of connection and support. We understand that when one family member is struggling, the entire family system is affected. Family therapy helps families better understand one another’s emotional needs while creating safer and more effective ways of interacting. Our therapists work collaboratively with children, adolescents, parents, caregivers, and families to reduce conflict, improve emotional understanding, and strengthen the overall functioning of the family unit. We provide a supportive environment where every family member can feel heard, respected, and valued throughout the healing process. Family counseling may help with: parent-child conflict blended family challenges divorce and separation adjustment behavioral concerns in children and teens communication breakdowns trauma and grief sibling conflict emotional regulation difficulties parenting stress and burnout family transitions and life changes supporting a child or adolescent in therapy anxiety, depression, or emotional struggles impacting the family system Our approach integrates evidence-based and trauma-informed therapy methods to help families: improve communication skills strengthen emotional connection reduce conflict and emotional reactivity build healthier boundaries improve problem-solving skills increase emotional safety within the home and create more supportive family relationships At Polaris Counseling & Consulting Services PLLC, we believe healing happens more effectively when families work together toward understanding, connection, and meaningful change. With the right support, families can move beyond unhealthy patterns and build stronger, healthier relationships that foster long-term emotional well-being for every family member. CHILD & ADOLESCENT THERAPY Children and teens today face increasing emotional, social, academic, and behavioral pressures that can impact their confidence, relationships, school performance, and overall mental health. Anxiety, depression, behavioral challenges, trauma, family stress, social struggles, and major life transitions can leave children and adolescents feeling overwhelmed, misunderstood, emotionally reactive, or disconnected. At Polaris Counseling & Consulting Services PLLC, we provide compassionate, trauma-informed child and adolescent therapy in a safe, supportive, and developmentally appropriate environment where children and teens can openly express emotions, process difficult experiences, and develop healthier coping skills. Our therapists work collaboratively with both children and caregivers to support emotional growth, resilience, and long-term well-being. We specialize in helping children and adolescents with: anxiety and social anxiety ADHD and attention difficulties depression and mood changes behavioral concerns emotional dysregulation school-related stress and academic pressure peer relationship struggles low self-esteem and confidence issues parent-child conflict separation and divorce adjustment childhood trauma and PTSD grief and loss bullying and social difficulties family transitions and stress Our therapists utilize evidence-based, trauma-informed, and age-appropriate therapeutic approaches tailored to each child’s unique developmental and emotional needs. Treatment may include: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Play Therapy interventions EMDR Therapy for children and teens Behavioral interventions Emotional regulation skill-building Parent support and coaching Attachment-based approaches Trauma-informed counseling At Polaris Counseling & Consulting Services PLLC, we believe children and teens thrive when they feel emotionally safe, supported, understood, and connected. Our goal is to help young clients build emotional resilience, strengthen self-confidence, improve communication skills, and develop healthier ways of coping with life’s challenges. We also recognize that healing often happens most effectively when caregivers feel supported throughout the process. Our therapists work closely with parents and families to strengthen relationships, improve communication, and create healthier emotional environments both at home and at school. Whether your child is struggling with anxiety, behavioral challenges, emotional overwhelm, trauma, school stress, or family changes, our team is here to provide compassionate support and guidance every step of the way.

CLINICAL SUPERVISION FOR LCMHCA PROFESSIONALS IN NORTH CAROLINA

At Polaris Counseling & Consulting Services PLLC, we are passionate about developing confident, ethical, and highly skilled mental health professionals through supportive, clinically rich supervision experiences. We provide professional clinical supervision for Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associates (LCMHCA) in North Carolina seeking licensure, advanced clinical growth, and meaningful career development. Our supervision process goes far beyond simply obtaining required hours. We are committed to helping associates deepen clinical competence, strengthen therapeutic confidence, develop their professional identity, and feel equipped to work effectively with complex client presentations across a variety of settings. We provide supervision for clinicians interested in: trauma-informed therapy anxiety and mood disorders EMDR-informed treatment couples counseling family systems work attachment-based therapy crisis intervention high-acuity clients child and adolescent therapy faith-integrated counseling nervous system regulation and somatic approaches Polaris Counseling & Consulting Services PLLC also offers supervision and consultation opportunities for clinicians pursuing growth in: EMDR Therapy Clinical Hypnosis Certified Integrative Trauma (CIT) approaches trauma processing and dissociation work emotionally focused interventions evidence-based treatment planning ethical and legally defensible documentation insurance-compliant clinical practice Our Licensed Clinical

EMDR CONSULTATION & PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT

At Polaris Counseling & Consulting Services PLLC, we provide advanced EMDR consultation and trauma-focused clinical consultation for therapists seeking greater confidence, clinical depth, and effectiveness in trauma treatment. Our consultation services support clinicians pursuing EMDR certification, strengthening trauma-informed therapy skills, or seeking guidance with complex trauma cases, attachment wounds, dissociation, anxiety, and nervous system dysregulation. We understand that many therapists complete EMDR training but still feel uncertain when clients: become emotionally flooded, shut down, intellectualize, dissociate, avoid targets, loop in processing, or struggle to access emotions. Our EMDR consultation process is designed to help clinicians move beyond rigid protocol use and develop stronger clinical intuition, trauma case conceptualization skills, nervous system awareness, and confidence working with complex trauma presentations. EMDR Consultation Areas Include: EMDR case conceptualization EMDR certification consultation Complex PTSD and developmental trauma Attachment-focused EMDR Dissociation and structural defenses Nervous system regulation Resourcing and stabilization Blocking beliefs and stuck processing Somatic integration in EMDR therapy Trauma-informed treatment planning Working with highly defended clients Clinical confidence and burnout prevention Ethical and effective trauma treatment Our consultation approach integrates: EMDR Therapy Attachment Theory Nervous System Regulation Somatic and Body-Based Interventions Clinical Hypnosis Certified Integrative Trauma (CIT) approaches Trauma-Informed Therapy Relational and Developmental Trauma Models Who We Work With We provide EMDR consultation for: newly trained EMDR therapists therapists pursuing EMDR certification trauma therapists working with high-acuity clients clinicians seeking advanced trauma consultation therapists integrating attachment and nervous system work into EMDR mental health professionals wanting stronger confidence with trauma processing Our consultation environment is supportive, collaborative, and clinically grounded. We create a space where therapists can openly discuss difficult cases, strengthen therapeutic presence, improve decision-making, and continue growing into highly effective trauma clinicians. At Polaris Counseling & Consulting Services PLLC, we believe excellent trauma therapy requires more than following a protocol. It requires attunement, emotional safety, nervous system understanding, clinical flexibility, and the ability to help clients process trauma in ways that feel safe, connected, and transformative. If you are looking for EMDR consultation, trauma therapy consultation, or EMDR certification support in North Carolina, Polaris Counseling & Consulting Services PLLC would be honored to support your professional growth.

LIFE COACHING


What is therapy like?

Every therapy session is unique and tailored to each individual and their needs.

Do I really need therapy?

Individuals consider therapy for various reasons, including navigating personal growth, addressing interpersonal relationships, managing family concerns, resolving marriage issues, and dealing with the challenges of daily life. Therapy offers valuable support, equips individuals with problem-solving skills, and enhances coping strategies for a range of issues, including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, unresolved childhood issues, grief, stress management, body image concerns, and overcoming creative blocks.

Do you take insurance?

We happily accept a range of insurance policies, though it does vary by counselor. Feel free to reach out and check with us to make sure your specific insurance plan is covered and to confirm the details of your mental health counseling coverage before you kick off your counseling journey. We've got your back and will handle filing claims directly with your insurance company as a friendly gesture. Just a heads up, it's super important for you to keep us in the loop with any updates or changes to your policy while you're working with us – we want to make sure everything runs smoothly!
For those awesome clients we're out of network for, don't worry. Your counselor can hook you up with a "Super Bill," which is basically a detailed invoice for services. You can send this to your insurance company, and hopefully, recoup some of those out-of-pocket costs. When it comes to payments, whether it's co-insurance, deductible, or the full out-of-pocket fee, we like to keep things simple – payment is due when services are rendered.
Now, here's a quick heads up: usually, life coaching (when there's no mental health diagnosis involved) and marital counseling might not be covered by insurance. We get it, choosing us to help you navigate life's challenges is an investment of time, energy, and money, and we're committed to being good stewards of all three.

How do I find the right therapist for me?

Many people wonder about how to find a therapist that really fits their needs, preferences, and unique challenges. It's a common question that involves thinking about things like the therapist's expertise, their approach to therapy, when they're available, and the overall vibe of the therapeutic relationship. People often seek advice on where to start, what questions to ask potential therapists, and how to take that difficult and scary step of starting the process of therapy. It's all about finding that perfect match for your journey!


Dr. Tracey Rodriguez, Psy.D

Executive Director, LCMHC-S

Dr. Tracey Rodriguez, Psy.D, is a distinguished mental health professional, holding licenses as a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in NC, SC, TX, and WA– and an Approved Clinical Supervisor in both North Carolina and Texas. With a Doctor of Psychology (Psy.D.) degree and comprehensive training in therapeutic techniques such as EMDR, Gottman Levels 1 and 2, Seven principles of making marriage work, Clinical Hypnosis, EFT, EFIT, Critical incident response, certified facilitator, in both Dr. Tracey Rodriguez, Psy.D, is a distinguished mental health professional, holding licenses as a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in NC, SC, TX, and WA– and an Approved Clinical Supervisor in both North Carolina and Texas. With a Doctor of Psychology (Psy.D.) degree and comprehensive training in therapeutic techniques such as EMDR, Gottman Levels 1 and 2, Seven principles of making marriage work, Clinical Hypnosis, EFT, EFIT, Critical incident response, certified SYMBIS facilitator, certified Prepare-Enrich facilitator and trainer, Amen institute certified brain health coach, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) through Behavioral Tech she brings a wealth of expertise to her practice and Prepare-Enrich, Amen institute certified brain health coach, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) through Behavioral Tech she brings a wealth of expertise to her practice.

Pamela Harris-Jones

Therapist

Pamela Harris-Jones, a dedicated Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (North Carolina License No. 12374) and a National Certified Counselor (No. 771447) with extensive expertise in various therapeutic modalities. Pamela specializes in Teen interventions and Family therapy . Her commitment to family support extends to being Rostered in the Strengthening Families Program and achieving proficiency in Triple P at Level IV Stepping Stones. Pamela is a licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and holds a bachelor's degree in psychology from North Carolina Central University. She furthered her education by completing her master's in Mental Health Counseling at Capella University. With a wealth of experience working with adolescents, teens, adults, and couples, Pamela brings a compassionate and client-centered approach to her practice. In her therapeutic work, Pamela utilizes a person-centered and solution-focused approach. Drawing on motivational interviewing, positive psychology, and cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) techniques, she empowers clients to make positive and lasting changes in their lives. Pamela firmly believes in meeting clients where they are, fostering a trusting therapeutic relationship as the foundation for transformative work. Pamela's training in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Parent-Child Interactive Therapy underscores her dedication to providing specialized and effective interventions. Her commitment to continuous learning and professional development ensures that she stays at the forefront of evidence-based practices. With Pamela, clients can expect a safe and supportive environment where their unique needs are acknowledged, and the therapeutic journey is guided by collaboration, empathy, and a genuine commitment to positive change.

Benita Bullock

LCMHC-A

Benita Bullock is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate (LCMHCA) who provides compassionate, trauma-informed therapy for adolescents, young adults, individuals, couples, and families navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relationship stress, emotional overwhelm, self-esteem concerns, and major life transitions. She is passionate about helping clients feel emotionally safe, understood, and supported as they work toward healing, confidence, and lasting emotional wellness. Benita is known for her warm, empathetic, and collaborative approach to therapy. She believes meaningful healing happens when clients feel genuinely heard and accepted without judgment. Her goal is to create a supportive therapeutic environment where clients can openly process difficult emotions, build healthier coping skills, strengthen relationships, and reconnect with their sense of identity, purpose, and inner resilience. She especially enjoys helping clients who are experiencing: anxiety and chronic stress depression and emotional burnout trauma and unresolved emotional pain grief and loss relationship and family conflict self-esteem and confidence struggles emotional regulation difficulties life transitions and adjustment stress communication challenges identity and personal growth concerns Benita works collaboratively with clients to identify unhealthy emotional and relational patterns while helping them develop healthier ways of coping, communicating, and responding to life’s challenges. She is passionate about helping clients strengthen emotional awareness, improve self-worth, navigate difficult relationships, and create meaningful, lasting change in their lives. Her therapeutic approach is client-centered, evidence-based, and rooted in compassion, emotional safety, authenticity, and trust. Benita strives to help clients feel empowered throughout the counseling process while supporting growth, healing, and deeper emotional connection. As an LCMHC-A under the supervision of Dr. Tracey Rodriguez, Psy.D., LCMHC (License #12920S), Benita remains committed to continued professional development and providing thoughtful, high-quality trauma-informed care. She considers it an honor to walk alongside clients during vulnerable seasons of life and is dedicated to helping individuals, couples, and families move toward hope, healing, and emotional wellness.

Jacquline Jones

LCMHC-A

Jacqueline P. Jones is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate who provides compassionate, trauma-informed therapy for adolescents, adults, couples, and families navigating anxiety, trauma, grief, relationship challenges, emotional stress, self-esteem concerns, and life transitions. She is passionate about helping clients heal from painful experiences, strengthen emotional resilience, and develop healthier patterns of communication, connection, and self-understanding. Jacqueline creates a warm, supportive, and collaborative therapeutic environment where clients can feel emotionally safe, heard, and empowered throughout the healing process. She believes meaningful change happens when individuals are given the space to explore their experiences without judgment while building the tools needed to move forward with greater clarity, confidence, and hope. Her clinical approach integrates evidence-based therapies tailored to each client’s unique needs, including: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) EMDR Therapy Motivational Interviewing (MI) Gottman Method Couples Therapy Prepare & Enrich SYMBIS Jacqueline especially enjoys working with clients experiencing relationship difficulties, family stress, unresolved trauma, emotional overwhelm, and negative self-beliefs that may be impacting daily life and relationships. She works collaboratively with clients to process unresolved pain, improve coping skills, strengthen emotional awareness, and a more grounded and fulfilling life.

Victoria Wagoner

Intern

Victoria specializes in trauma therapy for women in Raleigh, NC who are healing from the lasting effects of emotionally immature, emotionally unavailable, or dysfunctional family relationships. Many of her clients grew up feeling responsible for others’ emotions, constantly hyper-aware of conflict, overly self-critical, or stuck in patterns of people-pleasing, perfectionism, anxiety, and emotional burnout. Victoria provides a warm, compassionate, and supportive therapeutic space where women can finally exhale, feel understood, and begin reconnecting with themselves in a healthier and more grounded way. She is passionate about helping clients break free from survival patterns that once protected them but now leave them emotionally exhausted, disconnected, overwhelmed, or unable to fully trust themselves and others. Her approach is active, collaborative, and focused on real-time healing and nervous system regulation. Victoria integrates evidence-based trauma therapies including Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Clinical Hypnotherapy to help clients process unresolved trauma, reduce anxiety, improve self-worth, and create lasting emotional change at both the mind and body level. Victoria works with women experiencing: childhood trauma anxiety and chronic stress emotional neglect people-pleasing and boundary struggles perfectionism relationship difficulties burnout and emotional exhaustion low self-esteem hypervigilance attachment wounds and unresolved family trauma She believes healing is possible when clients feel emotionally safe enough to slow down, understand their patterns with compassion, and begin building a life that no longer revolves around survival mode. Her goal is to help women feel more confident, emotionally regulated, connected, and at peace within themselves and their relationships. If you are looking for EMDR therapy, trauma counseling, or anxiety treatment in Raleigh, NC, Victoria would be honored to support you on your healing journey.

Heather Thole

Intern

Heather Thole is a warm, compassionate counseling intern in Raleigh, NC, dedicated to helping children, teens, and adults feel emotionally safe, supported, and understood as they navigate life’s challenges. Heather provides trauma-informed, collaborative therapy for individuals struggling with anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, emotional overwhelm, relationship difficulties, identity concerns, life transitions, and personal growth. Through a grounded and caring approach, she helps clients reconnect with themselves, rebuild self-trust, and develop greater confidence, resilience, and emotional balance. Heather believes therapy is not about becoming someone else — it is about rediscovering who you already are beneath stress, self-doubt, trauma, and disconnection. She creates a gentle, nonjudgmental space where clients can slow down, process difficult emotions, and begin healing in a way that feels authentic and empowering. Known for her calming presence and relational approach, Heather works closely with children, adolescents, and adults who may feel overwhelmed, emotionally stuck, disconnected from themselves, or unsure of how to move forward. She understands that healing often begins when people feel truly seen, heard, and accepted without shame or pressure. Heather supports clients experiencing: Anxiety and chronic stress Emotional overwhelm Low self-esteem and self-doubt Trauma and emotional wounds Relationship struggles Life transitions and identity concerns Boundary and communication difficulties Women’s issues Personal growth and self-discovery Child and adolescent emotional challenges Confidence and emotional regulation Rebuilding self-trust and resilience Heather’s therapy style is compassionate, reflective, empowering, and deeply relational. She believes meaningful healing happens through intentional self-exploration, emotional safety, honest reflection, and supportive therapeutic connection. Her approach helps clients better understand their emotions, strengthen coping skills, improve relationships, and reconnect with their values and authentic voice. For children and teens, Heather provides a nurturing environment that helps young clients feel comfortable expressing emotions, processing difficult experiences, building confidence, and learning healthy emotional regulation skills. She works collaboratively with families to support growth, emotional wellbeing, and resilience. Heather is currently a graduate counseling student in the Counselor Education program at East Carolina University and anticipates graduating in May 2027. She is supervised by Tracey Rodriguez, Psy.D, LCMHC, NCC (North Carolina License #12920). Heather offers individual therapy in Raleigh, NC, with both in-person counseling and online therapy available throughout North Carolina. She is currently accepting clients to her waitlist.

Clinical trainees and interns

We are committed to equipping the next generation of counselors, therapists. and social Workers. We provide training opportunities for Master’s level students.


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